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our wedding
a message from the bride & groom
With the sincerest of gratitude, we joyfully request the pleasure of your company on our wedding day on May 22nd, 2026 in Clifton, NJ. More information covering the wedding weekend are provided across this site, which we'll continue to update, as necessary.
INTRODUCTION
RSVP
We are beyond excited to be a Bride & Groom, and we hope you share the same sentiment. To confirm your attendance on our big day, click the button below to be re-directed to our RSVPify form. Upon accessing the page, you will be prompted to find your invitation by enter ing your first name, last name, and email
Please input the name of the primary addressee exactly as written on your invitation to access your invite
For example, if the outer envelope of your invite is addressed to "Mr. and Mrs. John Smith," you should enter "John Smith" in the initial pop-up. You will be able to add others in your party as the form progresses, as applicable (i.e., if you receive a plus one or plus family, you'll have the option to include others in your submission.) Please no nicknames, and please include proper salutations as we will be using your submission for place cards.
This form can only be submitted once. All responses must be submitted no later than April 3rd, 2026.
If you have any issues while navigating the form, please do not submit and Contact Us using the button below.
5:00PM
may 22, 2026
ceremony
5:30pm
cocktails
7:00pm
dinner
8:00pm
dancing
p.s. - we hope you'll join us for our pre- and post-celebrations too
a glimpse into the big day
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- Parking is available onsite. Complimentary valet will be at your disposal. Gentle reminder that there will be an open bar at the event. If you plan on drinking, do not drive
- Complimentary transport will begin from our hotel block at ~4:15pm to the venue. Departures back to the block will begin as the evening begins to sunset; exact times TBC
- Dress code for the wedding day is formal, black-tie preferred. Out respect for the level of service being provided by VR's staff, we ask that all guests arrive dressed appropriately in black-tie optional attire, at a minimum
on the big day...
arrival
- VR is known for its Italian-American cuisine. As big foodies ourselves, we're working closely with VR's kitchen to curate the perfect celebratory food and drink menu. We promise there will be no shortage of food throughout the evening, so please come hungry, and please no outside food or beverage
- If you have any dietary restrictions, kindly let us know on your RSVP form
- We will have a premium open bar available to all guests 21+ for the duration of the evening. If you plan on drinking, make sure to have your ID on hand. No BYOB
cuisine
- Dinner and dancing will be hosted in VR's grand ballroom. Main courses will be served at ~7pm with dessert, coffee, and tea to immediately follow
- You will be assigned to a dinner table upon arrival. Table-swapping with other guests is strictly prohibited
- Dinner will be a waitered service. Guests will place their dinner order table-side after selecting their main course from the Bride & Groom's menu
- DJ to open dance floor open to all ~8:30PM
- Shuttles back to the hotel are scheduled to run until ~11:00pm
reception
frequently asked questions
Due to space limitations, we are only able to accommodate guests formally included on your wedding invitation. If you receive a plus one, you will have the option enabled to add an additional name to your RSVP.
We love your little ones! However, due to the limited space at the venue, we have decided to keep our wedding as adults only, except for children who are in the wedding party. We respectfully ask parents to please make childcare arrangements in advance for their little ones under the age of 13. Thank you for your understanding, and we hope you'll take advantage of this celebratory moment to enjoy a night out and have fun!
Yes. See Travel & Stay for more detail.
We have arranged complimentary transportation to and from Valley Regency for guests staying in our hotel block. Shuttles will depart from our hotel block ~40 minutes before our ceremony and return every half hour as the evening sunsets. Exact times TBC. Guests with lodging arrangements outside of our preferred hotel are responsible for their own transport
Our ceremony will be an unplugged event. Phones, smartwatches, tablets, and outside cameras are strictly prohibited, and all electronic devices must be turned off and out-of-sight during the ceremony. Once cocktail hour begins, feel free to use your devices to snap away.
Of course not. Our only ask is that you please indicate which event(s) you plan on attending when submitting your RSVP form. If you accept our invitation to our ceremony and reception in RSVPify, you'll be prompted to RSVP to each pre- and post-celebration.
You will be presented with the Bride and Groom's curated menu after taking your seat at the reception. The waitstaff at Valley Regency will take your order table-side after you've had the chance to review the evening's menu. No RSVP pre-selection required.
As I'm sure you can imagine, planning a wedding is a lot of work. We will keep the RSVP form open until April 3rd, though would appreciate your response ASAP.
Out of respect for the level of service being provided by the staff of Valley Regency, the dress code for our wedding day is strictly formal. We ask that men wear tuxedos or dark suits, and women wear floor-length, ballerina, or midi-length gowns in your color of choice. Please no white attire out of respect for the Bride & Groom. Click here to learn more
Yes! Click here to be re-directed to our Registry page for more detail.
Yes. Premium open bar service will begin after the ceremony.
